From what I gather as an outsider, it depends on the community. Khomeini made a fatwa accepting transgender women, FWIW, while other Muslim countries do not:
See also:
- What does Islam say about transsexuality, their rights, social status etc.? How does it feel to be a Muslim transsexual, what issues do they face?
- What does it feel like to be a Muslim and transgender?
Good luck in all your journeys.